I asked Monica to pick out some pretty clothes for Elena, and she brought me the little cornflower blue dress I bought for her when she was little. I thought, "but that's a church dress!" When she was wearing it around all afternoon, looking adorable, I was so happy I didn't kybosh it, though! Why save all the pretty clothes for dressy occasions? Who knows what Sunday may bring?
Photobomber at Mary S. Young Park Watching Ethan play games on his phone COVID Parking lot church! Grill Master! In February of 2020, shortly before the COVID-19 pandemic shut everything down, we ended up having an unexpected houseguest join us for a few day - which turned into 6 months! Our friend's son, Ethan, ended up rooming with Ezra and Phin for that time. Since his stay impacted us in a big way, I didn't want to leave him out of our photo albums!
The problem with marriage - or the modern understanding of marriage - is that a union which claims to help two independent people find "self-actualization" or to "fulfill all their dreams" is impossible. What happens when one person's self-actualization is one hundred percent in the way of the other person's dream? Well, maybe divorce. Maybe just a fight. Possibly one partner yields all rights to his own "self-actualization" and bends to the other's will - not happily, but out of necessity - perhaps there are children involved. Sometimes the idea of "compromise" is introduced - I give this, you give that. Maybe neither is happy, but hey, any reasonable person can see that you can't have your own way all the time. I just read Dr. Leithart's article " When Marriage is Dying ." He made the case that any marriage involves death - the death of two single people to produce a couple, and that every marriage requires daily...
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