Photobomber at Mary S. Young Park Watching Ethan play games on his phone COVID Parking lot church! Grill Master! In February of 2020, shortly before the COVID-19 pandemic shut everything down, we ended up having an unexpected houseguest join us for a few day - which turned into 6 months! Our friend's son, Ethan, ended up rooming with Ezra and Phin for that time. Since his stay impacted us in a big way, I didn't want to leave him out of our photo albums!
I asked Monica to pick out some pretty clothes for Elena, and she brought me the little cornflower blue dress I bought for her when she was little. I thought, "but that's a church dress!" When she was wearing it around all afternoon, looking adorable, I was so happy I didn't kybosh it, though! Why save all the pretty clothes for dressy occasions? Who knows what Sunday may bring?
The problem with marriage - or the modern understanding of marriage - is that a union which claims to help two independent people find "self-actualization" or to "fulfill all their dreams" is impossible. What happens when one person's self-actualization is one hundred percent in the way of the other person's dream? Well, maybe divorce. Maybe just a fight. Possibly one partner yields all rights to his own "self-actualization" and bends to the other's will - not happily, but out of necessity - perhaps there are children involved. Sometimes the idea of "compromise" is introduced - I give this, you give that. Maybe neither is happy, but hey, any reasonable person can see that you can't have your own way all the time. I just read Dr. Leithart's article " When Marriage is Dying ." He made the case that any marriage involves death - the death of two single people to produce a couple, and that every marriage requires daily...
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